Laws of Relationship

The journey of human relationship has become a thrilling and challenging process of living that we cannot overlook because the feeling of loneliness and having none to relate with is generally unbearable to everyone. When we are lonely, we feel incapacitated and friendless. None can fulfill this earthly mission without connecting and associating with humans, and with the application of each law in this book. In the world today, it's dangerous to be alone, and even more difficult to associate with others. The question is: what shall we do or where to go to solve these complications about a relationship and to use these laws, because it may be dangerous when found in a wrong hand. With the spiritful application of laws of relationship, the ancient and great scholars succeeded in different fields of endeavor; because they realized the pain that follows loneness and the darky thought of an outcast. Throughout history, great historians, psychologists, and philosophers had gotten to a habit of relating only with those that bring out the best. In fact, the more you understand these laws, the better your friend, best lover, best relationship counselor, and best human strategist you become. With these laws, you will learn how to make people feel better about themselves and also feel comfortable with you. You will become a kind of magnet that people want to stay around you. Others will develop a dependence on you and grow boredom when you are not there. By mastering and applying these laws, you will spare others the pain that comes from bungling with a relationship by touching the hot and cold button when familiarity shows up in any relationship. If these laws are inescapable, it is better to be a direct practitioner than just a mere reader. It requires more courage and doubtful or mysterious personality to learn this game of human relationship; somehow, you may behave irrationally. The laws require a shift of perspective and behavior by adapting to the most suitable way of living. It may take more courage and many years of practice to master and assimilate the laws laid down in this book, and skills are required too. The most vital and crucial aspect of these laws is the ability to master your emotions. An emotional response to any situation is unethical and one of the barriers to a relationship; because feeling comes with fault and error; it conveys mistakes that will cost you a lot more damage than gain. Emotions cloud reasons and facts; and if not mastered and curtailed at the appropriate time, it has the ripple tendency to ruin any relationship. Pleasing-lifestyle is the most destructive of all emotional responses because it clouds your vision and obstructs the way to accurate thinking but, a successful and effective relationship requires thorough examinations. Emotion has a ripple effect that invariably makes the situation more imbroglios on your side in the relationship. If you want to have a quality relationship, use the pain and pleasure strategy; to keep them in suspense. And I will write extensively about it in the eightieth law. Related to mastering your emotions and feelings is the ability to distance from the presence of that you are familiar with, to generate more values. To make this effective, learn how to blow it hot and cold. These laws are mysterious if not effectively applied, never allow anything to get you by surprise, always be at alert. Instead of entertaining feelings and emotions, create a kind of net that you will use to catch people by surprise. The more you spy and surprise people more overwhelmed you will appear, and they can't figure out what comes next. These laws were established as panaceas to examine most of your mistakes and adjust your preconceive-notions about relationships. This course started as a result of careful research of the life-works of thousands of scholars that had impacted the history of human relationships in a way or another.